Oh hello Monday. Its nice to see you this time.

Hello faithful blog readers. Anything new? I know, I know, this unfortunately is probably a Monday we are all happy to see arrive.

As most of you are fully aware of the horrendous tragedy that took place this past Friday in Connecticut, what is the most ugly of these events is how our media exploits the situation.

We know nothing about the young man that committed these horrible crimes. We know nothing about the young mans family or upbringing. Yet the media is running wild with speculation as to means and motive. The media feeds the knee jerk reaction of every simple minded talking head to pontificate on personal opinion regarding the second amendment, further gun control, mental illness all the way down to what video games and tv the accused may have watched in his life. Of course the simpletons among us see the only solution to the problem is to eliminate all those listed things. Idiots.

Gun control does not fix this problem. Banning assault weapons does not eliminate school, movie theater, or mall shootings. Psychiatric hospitals and mental health doctors do not prevent these horrible things from happening. Purple magical unicorns and school prayers do not prevent these things from happening. Grandstanding moronic legislators promising new bills outlawing every single behavior or device prevent these horrible acts from occurring.

Understand this and repeat it a million times. Personal responsibility.

Personal responsibility comes in all shapes and sizes of life. From a mother with a mentally unstable kid living in her home deciding that while it may be lawful to own and collect an assortment of weapons, that its probably in her and the local populations best interest that she not have a fucking arsenal in her garage/basement. Thats personal responsibility.

Personal responsibility comes in the shape of a mother, father, brother, sister, family member, police, doctor, lawyer, judge, fireman, priest saying to someone, “look your sister, brother, son, daughter, is a fucking lunatic who needs mental health treatment”. It’s nothing to be ashamed of and no different then if you’re sick with the flu, cancer, or a broken leg. Until we let go of the stigma of mental health being a big no no talk and dirty little secret to ignore, then someone in the chain of life is failing at personal responsibility for that sick members condition and possible life experiences.

Personal responsibility comes in the forms of our school administrators and local elected government protecting our children. Before we bitch and moan about the teachers unions and their shitty pay, we need to know do we have any level of security? Is there the simplest form of a security plan about who the hell can walk into or get access into a full school of kindergarten children? How about a security plan or access control for a fucking kid armed to the teeth with assault rifles and pistols dressed in tactical or threatening clothing? Its not hard to spot these mass shooting perpetrators for god sake. Maybe we should lock a door. Maybe we should install a camera. Maybe we should pay at least someone to watch the locked fucking door or camera. Thats personal responsibility, whether its from a school principal, security guard, or Mr. Smith the science teacher.

Until we as a society start taking a look at ourselves for our problems instead of pointing blame at others, we will continue the downward spiral. We are each responsible for our own happiness and survival. No one is going to effectively legislate responsibility, happiness, safety, or morality. Only you the individual can do any of those things. What needs to be understood however is while there are those that refuse to take personal responsibility for their own lives and actions the simpletons whom we the lazy have elected to represent those that refuse to take personal responsibility, will only take away the freedoms from the few of us that try to live in a responsible way.

  • Drugs are bad. Take them away. How has that worked?
  • Alcohol is bad. Take it away. How has that worked?
  • Cigarettes are bad. Take them away. How has that worked?
  • Speeding in a car is bad. Take it away. How has that worked?
  • Guns are bad. Take them away. How has that worked?

Do you see a trend here? Look at the list of bad things that this nation and world has over time tried to legislate away because of the peoples lack of personal responsibility. Look at the consequences people historically have paid over time due to this legislation. When you don’t take responsibility for your actions, it doesn’t affect you. Eventually it only effects those that are responsible. The history books are full of prime examples of how people, citizens, countries, civilizations have failed for nothing more then lack of responsibility that more times then not can easily be traced back to an individual.

We’re all going to fail at something or things in life. It’s nature to fail. Without failure we don’t learn. Its when we fail that we don’t own the failure or blame someone else for the failure that the problem really takes root. Failure is a tough lesson in life to accept and take ownership of in this day and age. Its easy to dismiss or shift the blame of failure to others for the current state of affairs we find ourselves living in. I know I am no different. I have failed, I have shifted blame too. I can say and I guess I am fortunate that I have realized that in life, it hasn’t worked. I believe real freedom is when you accept your failures, learn and move on, trying not to fail in a similar way again. Sometimes the lessons are easy, sometimes hard.

I have soapboxed this subject enough so I’ll close with the following. Don’t allow the mainstream media to dictate to you how to feel. There are no hero’s in this so don’t look for any. Hollywood movie stars and entertainers having nothing of significance to say about this and if they claim they do then you should know immediately they’re full of shit and don’t truly care. There was and still is lots of failure of personal responsibility that led to and allowed this to happen. It wasn’t a singular item. Not a gun, an unlocked door, or a mother in denial of her mentally broken son. A lot of people passed the buck and didn’t accept responsibility that lead up to these events. This will happen again. No amount of new laws will prevent bad things from happening. Be responsible, and be ready for bad things to happen in a way that makes you comfortable. Not what some idiot on TV or the Internet tells you. This blog included.

 

4 thoughts on “Oh hello Monday. Its nice to see you this time.

  1. I agree 100% that its personal responsibility. I feel so sorry that kids today have to grow up with such fears. As a child I remember walking to school everyday, I don’t even think school resource officers existe. My sister and I were outside playing all day, walking all over town and my parents never haved to worry as long as we were home for dinner. It is sad that we have to live in fear of our kids going to school, the movies or the mall because of the instability of others. Why is it so different these days? The innocence of childhood these days has been robbed from our kids 🙁

  2. My folks were sending me outside to play alone at 4-5 years old in New Jersey. I rode a bicycle to school half way across PSL back in the day. Hung out all day playing baseball at Sportmans park. Now kids are pulling guns there. Lots of reasons why things are different these days. Economics, both parents working no one at home. Kids get no social skills on how to cope with the world. No respect for authority. A parent even if they want to which is rare, can’t beat a kids ass who needs it. It all adds up to what we have now, but from my rather myopic view I still see it as a failure of the individual. Whether thats the parent, kid, cop, judge, teacher etc. No one wants to do anything or take a stand and if by chance they do, the system is so screwed those that do stop and try to do the right thing are the ones getting legally or socially penalized or for it.

    This isnt some utopia from two or three generations ago either. This was a few simple years back. My brothers and I sat in a hot assed car in the middle if SearsTown Ft. Pierce in the summer time while my mother went into stores to shop only because we were a bunch of rambunctious bastards to deal with. You go to jail for that now. I had a fifth grade teacher what had no compulsion about pulling off his belt and whipping a kids ass that got out of line. That was after my father on parent teacher night the weekend before school started gave him permission to whip my ass at will if I needed it. First and only time I got straight fucking A’s.

  3. I remember the days when a teacher would could give you licks with a paddle, because you were disrespectful, and your parents didnt mind. The best thing my daughter (who is now 18) ever learned from me was fear! She always knew that if she was bad in school or disrespectful to a teacher or an adult, whatever happened at school was no where near as bad as it would be when she got home!! Today…she graduated from HS in the top 20%, 1 semester from completing her AA in college and works 2 jobs.

    My sister and I grew up in Orlando, we walked to school everyday and never worried about being shot. We played in the street until dark on weekdays and until we got yelled at to come in on the weekends. But most kids today have no respect for anyone, let alone themselves! The system has instilled in them that we as parents can beat their asses anymore!! And 9 out of 10 kids…that is what they need, a good ol’fashioned ass kickin!! But our society as a whole has gotten lazy, because every see it as “not my problem”….it is OUR problem!! This shit needs to change! Too many kids are dying for no reason!!

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